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The Cultural Rules Tourists Keep Ignoring in Sri Lanka and Why It Matters
- Salithra Pathirana
- Sep 5
- 3 min read
When travellers think of Sri Lanka, they picture golden beaches, misty hills, and sacred temples. But beyond the landscapes lies a deeper beauty — a culture shaped by thousands of years of tradition, spirituality, and social etiquette.
Unfortunately, many tourists unintentionally cross boundaries that matter deeply to locals. Not out of disrespect, but simply due to a lack of awareness.
In this blog, we explore the key cultural rules tourists often ignore in Sri Lanka and why honouring them isn’t just polite, it transforms your journey.
Cultural rules at Temple
Temples in Sri Lanka, Buddhist, Hindu, or otherwise are sacred spaces, not sightseeing stops.
What tourists often get wrong:
Wearing sleeveless tops or shorts
Taking selfies in front of Buddha statues
Turning their backs to shrines while posing for photos
Talking loudly or treating temples as Instagram content factories
What to do instead:
Wear modest clothing: shoulders and knees must be covered
Remove shoes and hats before entering
Avoid any physical contact with religious objects or monks
Refrain from taking photos unless clearly allowed
Why it matters: Disrespecting temple etiquette offends not only religious leaders but everyday locals and can also lead to being asked to leave or even fined.
Always Use Your Right Hand
Whether you're giving money to a vendor, receiving a gift from a host, or enjoying a traditional rice and curry meal with your hands, it is customary in Sri Lanka to use your right hand at all times during these interactions.
This practice is deeply rooted in Sri Lankan and broader South Asian cultural etiquette. The left hand is traditionally associated with personal hygiene and is considered unclean in social contexts. As such, using the left hand to pass food, exchange money, or offer a handshake may unintentionally be seen as disrespectful or unhygienic ,even if no offense is intended.
Public Displays of Affection? Keep It Private
While holding hands is usually tolerated, kissing, hugging, or overt affection in public is generally frowned upon, especially in rural areas or near religious sites.
Why it matters
Sri Lanka is modest by nature, and many locals, particularly older generations, find PDA uncomfortable or inappropriate. It’s best to err on the side of discretion.
Be Mindful of How You Speak About Religion and Politics
Tourists often feel free to voice opinions. But in Sri Lanka, religion and politics are deeply personal and sensitive topics.
Avoid:
Criticizing local beliefs
Making jokes about Buddhist practices or temple rituals
Engaging in heated political debates, especially in public settings
Why it matters
Sri Lanka has a complex history. A flippant comment, even if well-meaning, can offend, alienate, or spark confrontation.
Don’t Assume English Means Western Thinking
Yes, many Sri Lankans speak English fluently — but that doesn’t mean they share Western norms, humour, or expectations.
Cultural tip
Politeness, patience, and humility are far more respected than assertiveness or entitlement. Saying “please” and “thank you” warmly will get you further than demanding five-star treatment.
Respect the Wildlife and Don’t Feed It
Sri Lanka is home to stunning biodiversity — elephants, monkeys, turtles, leopards. But many tourists fuel harmful habits by feeding animals or supporting exploitative wildlife encounters.
Do
Visit ethical sanctuaries or go on jeep safaris led by licensed guides
Observe animals at a distance
Support conservation-based tourism
Don’t:
Feed monkeys at temples
Touch or chase animals for photos
Why Following Cultural Norms Enhances Your Travel Experience
Respect isn’t just a one-way street, it opens doors.
When locals see tourists taking the time to understand and respect their customs, they often respond with warmth, generosity, and authentic hospitality.
You’ll be invited into homes, Offered hidden experiences, Trusted with sacred knowledge
Final Thoughts
In a time when experiential travel is trending, the most meaningful moments aren’t found on an itinerary. They’re created in moments of mutual respect.
So the next time you walk barefoot through a temple courtyard, accept tea with both hands, or nod politely instead of interrupting, know that you’re doing more than being polite.
You’re being a better traveller. And Sri Lanka will thank you for it.
Travel Respectfully with Art of Lanka Tours
At Art of Lanka, we don’t just take you around the island, we help you understand it.
Our experienced local guides ensure you experience the real Sri Lanka while navigating customs with respect and ease. From spiritual encounters to rural traditions, we make sure your journey is authentic, ethical, and unforgettable.
Start your culturally mindful journey today at www.artoflanka.com
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